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<\/figure>\n\n\nImage\nsource : pushstory.com<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n Whenever\nyou entertain \u201cNO\u201d to life, at first, always, the \u201cNO\u201d is\nentertained as frustration. Then it evolves as anger, violence,\nself-doubt, self-hatred, self-denial and similar such expressions.\nBut, it starts as frustration.<\/p>\n\n\n Say, your body has a headache or stomach pain. Don\u2019t shrink. When that headache comes, stomach-ache comes, don\u2019t add psychological suffering to it \u2013 \u2018Oh, if this same continues, what will happen? I am very young. Now itself I am getting a headache, and stomach pain! Now, the stomach pain, if it just goes up two-inch, it will become chest pain. If the headache comes a few inches down, then it will become chest pain. What will happen to me? How long will I live?\u2019 Don\u2019t add psychological sufferings when your body gives some pain. Don\u2019t increase the strength of actual pain.<\/p>\n\n\n This\nway of relating with life puts you in a space that Upanishads call\nAndhena thamasaa (\u0905\u0928\u094d\u0927\u0947\u0928<\/strong>\u0924\u092e\u0938\u093e<\/strong>)\u201d\nmeaning, \u201cblinding darkness\u201d, the darkness which just makes you\nblind, shrouded. This is the darkness created by the negative\nqualities which then blinds you. This creates hell like situations\nexternally and internally for you.<\/p>\n\n\n So\nhow should we respond to such situations? Saying YES to life is the\nway. Deciding FOR LIFE is the way. One of the important qualities\nto say \u201cYES\u201d to life is tremendous patience. Tremendous\npatience! Saying YES! YES! YES! every time YES! to life comes\nfrom having tremendous patience with life.<\/p>\n\n\n This does not mean that we accept whatever happens. No. We need to do whatever needs to be done to move towards a situation that we want to create. The end state needs to be a place where we are looking forward to engage more with life. <\/p>\n\n\n The people with whom you are living \u2013 first you and everyone else around you \u2013 their ignorance or inability should not give you frustration, should not make you say \u201cNO\u201d to you. The moment you accept \u201cNO, the moment you say \u201cNO\u201d to expansion, you have started saying \u201cNO\u201d to you. Inability and ignorance of you and the people living around you cannot reduce your creativity or plans to express your peak possibility.<\/p>\n\n\n If you have a headache, look into it and see: What it is? Why? How much your contribution is there in that headache? And, what is the message body wants to give you through that headache? Have the patience to deal with yourself. Have the patience to deal with others. <\/p>\n\n\n \nNever\never plan based on anger and violence. The maximum violence and\nanger allowed in your life is spontaneously defending you if you are\nattacked. No question of planned violence and anger.<\/p>\n\n\n Only\ntremendous PATIENCE!<\/p>\n\n\n Based on satsangs delivered by rare Living Incarnation Bhagavan Sri Nithyananda Paramashivam<\/p>\n\n\nResistance\nto Life begins with Frustration<\/h3>\n\n\n
The\ntrap of adding psychological suffering<\/h3>\n\n\n
External\nand Internal Hell<\/h3>\n\n\n
The\nAntidote<\/h3>\n\n\n